Re: Winning Strategies For Children's Confidence

Does this sound like you?

You're a Concerned Parent who dreams of becoming a Proud Parent.

Currently, you're focused on your kid's safety and their growth and development, right?

So, let me ask you a question...

Would you be ecstatic if your kids were more confident in everyday situations; stronger, more coordinated and have self-defense skills; and for them to be grateful for what they have (especially their parents)?

Because if you could have those things, ultimately, that would mean you could keep your kids safe from harm and for them to live happy, successful, fulfilling lives! (Which would be amazing!)

Unfortunately, I get the sense there are some roadblocks for you, including figuring out how to get your kids to:
* Experience situations that develop strength of character and make them mentally tougher;
* Build their physical and self-defense skills; and
* Learn to be more grateful.

Sound familiar?

Another thing...

Are you also really frustrated by the fact that it's hard NOT to do everything for your kids. Unintentionally making them more fearful, fragile and unprepared for the real world. It's also hard NOT to overprotect them so they never get hurt. Accidentally creating a bubble that makes them weaker and more vulnerable. Finally it's hard to get them interested in activities that build skills and character. Rather than play mindless video games.

Plus, do you constantly ask yourself these questions about how to move forward?:
* How can I learn to let go, and for my kids learn to believe in themself and their abilities?
* How can they build their physical and self-protection skills, without getting hurt?
* How can they be happy AND learn to appreciate what I do for them?

One last question...

Do you ever find yourself thinking "My kids were born more sensitive, so they get emotionally upset quicker and are more fearful in unfamiliar situations"... or "they weren't born super athletic so they're a bit weaker and more vulnerable"... or "they're unmotivated and don't get off their video games long enough to try anything new"?

I see it in many children!

And finally, to make matters even worse, sometimes (no matter what you do) it just plain feels like a harsh and uncaring world gets in the way of your kid's safety, and their growth and development.

Let me tell you, I know exactly how you feel because I've seen it myself... more than once!

When all is said and done, my guess is you really just want:
* For your kids to be resilient and face difficult situations with unstoppable confidence, so they succeed in the world.
* For them to be healthy, strong, and capable of defending themselves in any situation, yet smart enough to know when to use it.
* And for them to be happy, grateful, and live fulfilling lives.

Yes?

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Richard Ouellette is the founder of Inner Hero Martial Arts & Fitness and the Budo Hero movement.

He started his transformational journey as an award-winning corporate leader and martial arts competitor. Receiving mentoring from some of the best martial arts and success coaches in the world. Becoming a certified Rapid Results Business Coach and achieving the rank of Master Instructor (7th Degree Black Belt).

After a rocky transition from the high-tech world that left him needing to build a profitable business quickly, he transformed his passion of coaching into a powerful movement.

Through his coaching and training programs, Richard has inspired, empowered and forged thousands of students to become Unstoppable (Budo Heroes). So they too can create the safe and successful life they deserve!

The Backstory
I started out shy, living in a harsh environment that had only two seasons. Winter and July. :)

I had a very loving family, but we didn't have a lot of money. So, we all worked very hard to get ahead.

I struggled in school. In fact, I made 54 spelling mistakes on a test one day and the teacher asked me “if I was stupid or mentally retarded". How many of us have been put down by authority figures, killing our confidence?

After that the bullies showed up. Tormenting me almost daily about our living conditions.

I wanted to bullying to stop so I studied computers to make money and karate to get tougher. Deep down inside though, I never again wanted to feel ashamed by my living conditions.

The Journey
I worked very hard for years and got very good at computer programming. Though as hard as I worked, I wasn’t moving forward, and my peers were passing me by.

The old success formula wasn't working. Go to school, get a good degree, that leads to a good job, and then you were set for life. It wouldn’t ensure success or provide me with the success skills of the wealthy. The reality is that the Education System and Big Corporations focus on their profits, not on our quality of life.

I was frustrated with my inability to give my family the better life I wanted for them. Worse I started thinking; what if my kids had to though the shame I did as a kid?

On the positive side karate taught me some self-defense skills and made me tougher. This improved my confidence in myself and my abilities.

The New Opportunity
I got a new boss who was very successful as an elite athlete and now in his career. He had achieved all his goals from applying Tony Robbins success strategies. So, I bought the same program and within six months I got a promotion.

The most valuable part of the program though was a workshop to discover what made us successful in the past. To repeat the formula and produce even more success in the future.

I then discovered that everyone successful I knew had two things in common. First, they followed the success strategies received from coaching and personal development programs. Second, they built confidence through martial arts or similar activities.

That's when I decided to start my journey to create Success Coaching Martial Arts.

The Framework
I went on a mission to work with as many world-class mentors as I could find. I bought every book, self-help program, and went to every seminar. Often working one-on-one with some of the top success and martial arts coaches in the world.

I recruited my brother, and we built a framework of all the strategies that worked for us. To build confidence, achieve our goals and defend ourselves.

I applied the framework on myself and started seeing even better results. I got a promotion and a raise at work. I won two gold and two silver medals at our national karate championships. I was able to give my family the life they deserved, including some very special magic moments.

My brother did the same and ended up with the family and career he wanted. Friends used it to get promotions and advanced their careers.

Our students applied it and saw a wide range of results. From getting in shape, losing weight, and defending themselves from physical attacks. To getting better school grades and having more confidence in everyday activities. And the list goes on.

Achievement & Transformation

Along the way there were many bumps in the road that needed to be overcome. Loved ones dying, breakups, unforeseen financial burdens and career changes.

Though still on the journey I'm blessed with a great life. Family and friends, I love to spend time with. A business I’m passionate about. Working with an amazing team of instructors and dedicated students.

The most important part of the journey is the transformation of who I've become. More confidence in myself and my abilities, but also less focused on myself and more on the tribe I’m serving. So, they too create the safe and successful life they deserve.

In my tribe of friends and clients I call this transformation, becoming a "Budo Hero" (martial arts hero).

Now...