From the Desk of: Richard Ouellette
Re: Winning Strategies For Children's Confidence!
Does this sound like you?
You're a Concerned Parent who dreams of becoming a Proud Parent.
Currently, you're focused on
your kid's safety and
their growth and development, right?
So, let me ask you a question...
Would you be ecstatic if your kids were
more confident in everyday situations;
stronger,
more coordinated and have
self-defense skills; and for them to be
grateful for what they have (
especially their parents)?
Because if you could have those things, ultimately, that would mean you could
keep your kids safe from harm and for them to
live happy, successful, fulfilling lives! (Which would be amazing!)
Unfortunately, I get the sense there are some roadblocks for you, including figuring out how to get your kids to:
* Experience situations that develop strength of character and make them mentally tougher;
* Build their physical and self-defense skills; and
* Learn to be more grateful.
Sound familiar?
Another thing...
Are you also really frustrated by the fact that
it's hard NOT to do everything for your kids. Unintentionally making them more fearful, fragile and unprepared for the real world.
It's also hard NOT to overprotect them so they never get hurt. Accidentally creating a bubble that makes them weaker and more vulnerable. Finally
it's hard to get them interested in activities that build skills and character. Rather than play mindless video games.
Plus, do you constantly ask yourself these questions about how to move forward?:
* How can I learn to let go, and for my kids learn to believe in themself and their abilities?
* How can they build their physical and self-protection skills, without getting hurt?
* How can they be happy AND learn to appreciate what I do for them?
One last question...
Do you ever find yourself thinking "My kids were
born more sensitive, so they
get emotionally upset quicker and are
more fearful in unfamiliar situations"... or "they
weren't born super athletic so they're a bit
weaker and more vulnerable"... or "they're
unmotivated and
don't get off their video games long enough to try anything new"?
I see it in many children!
And finally, to make matters even worse, sometimes (no matter what you do) it just plain feels like a harsh and uncaring world gets in the way of your kid's safety, and their growth and development.
Let me tell you, I know exactly how you feel because I've seen it myself... more than once!
When all is said and done, my guess is you really just want:
* For your kids to be resilient and face difficult situations with unstoppable confidence, so they succeed in the world.
* For them to be healthy, strong, and capable of defending themselves in any situation, yet smart enough to know when to use it.
* And for them to be happy, grateful, and live fulfilling lives.
Yes?
If this sounds at all like your situation, then I'd like to invite you to check out...